Dodging the Bait
I met a guy online and the conversations were amazing. He made it clear that he, like me, was looking for a serious relationship. Our first date was epic until the end. After a lengthy goodnight kiss he obviously wanted to come back to my place. I put the breaks on that, not wanting to rush things and he seemed fine with that. The result? The guy is MIA- no return texts or calls. Seeing that he’s gone radio silent, my guess is that he wasn’t fine with that. If you’re b


Oh, Baby!
I’ve been reading about people over 50 hiring surrogates or adopting. As a gay man, I’ve never been in the position to have a child even though it’s something I’ve always wanted. Financially and emotionally surrogacy is something I can do, but I’m worried that I’m too old. How old is too old to become a parent? We know parenting doesn’t come with height restrictions, weight restrictions and thanks to some TV shows we know that some become parents while they’re still being


Invitations and Infuriations
A friend of mine is getting married this spring and I received an invitation. I expected it, but I didn’t expect not seeing the words “and guest”. I mentioned it to my friend and he said, “You can’t even get a date, so why waste a spot.” How should I respond? Seems to me their wedding day would be the perfect day to schedule a dental appointment or perhaps some elective surgery. Could also be a perfect day to give your dog a bath. In other words, check the box that says


Reflection, Resolution and Relocation
My husband and I have been together for ten years, and I want to do something extra special this Valentine’s Day. What do you think is the most heartfelt gift I can give? Easy- find a picture of the two of you from early in your relationship, print it in black and white and frame it. Then purchase some really nice stationery and write an old-fashioned love letter. Cover your feelings from when the picture was taken to the road that’s brought you to today. Something as sim

