Halftime Report

I’m on two online dating sites and in the last month my profile is getting little to no attention. In addition, I feel like the dates I’ve had recently have been a total bust. What could I be doing wrong? I’m ready to throw in the towel on this dating thing. Dating can be frustrating and it sounds like you’ve simply hit a dating slump. It happens to all of us and you’ll snap out of it- I promise. There are a few things you can do to “de-slump” and the great news is that now is the perfect time to do it. July 1st marks the halfway point of the year and a perfect time to re-evaluate your 2019 trajectory in all facets of your life, including your efforts in the dating scene. If you’re not

Exclusively Yours

I’ve been dating a guy for almost a year and whenever I bring up “exclusivity” or “monogamy” I get shot down. I know he isn’t seeing anyone else, but he refuses to commit to being monogamous. How can I change his mind? You can’t. If he’s not willing to apply those words to your relationship, there’s no way to get him to honestly embrace the meaning of those words and the actions necessary to make them real. The only thing you can do is to either move forward as part of what sounds like an open relationship with a man who’s given you zero reasons to think he’s seeing others or cut your losses and find a man who’s vocabulary contains “exclusivity” and “monogamy”. How soon is too soon to go

Straight up on the Rocks

I’ve been seeing a guy for a couple months and he’s really great but there’s one disturbing thing I’m noticing. The more comfortable he gets being with me, the more he allows himself to hit the cocktails. He drinks a lot when we go out, and when we chat on non-date nights he’s at home drinking after work. Should I be alarmed over his high consumption? Obviously the siren has already sounded and you’re concerned. Having a conversation about it is the next step. Maybe he just has a few more than you’re use to having or maybe it’s a problem- the only way to know is to talk about it. Once you have it out there you can make choices accordingly. I had a first date with a guy who got sloppy d

Right Swipes and Left Hooks

It’s been three months since my breakup and I’m still in a slump that I can’t shake. I’m not upset about not being with my Ex; I’m more furious with myself for getting involved with such a narcissistic jerk. I keep playing the relationship over and over in my head and I’m so angry with myself for being so stupid. Giving someone love, even the undeserving, isn’t a punishable offense. There’s no crime in giving love based on what you believe to be true OR what you were led to believe to be true. It’s time to step out of the boxing ring and quit beating yourself up. You made the mistake of putting your investment in a commodity without the benefit or reading the complete portfolio because

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