I’ve been dating a guy for six months and at the beginning of our relationship he always looked great when we’d go out.  Lately I’ve noticed his sense of style is going downhill fast.  Instead of always looking crisp and put together, he’s now sporting dirty jeans and...

I’m trying to take your advice and meet new potential dates in real time situations.  My problem is that when I’m in a bar or at a party and I see someone I think is cute and available I’m too afraid to make the first move.  How do I overcome this?

How?  You just d...

I want to throw a birthday party for my husband, but he’s not into celebrating his birthday and he really hates being surprised.  It’s a big one this year and it really needs to be celebrated, and he deserves every accolade.

One of the best accolades you can give him is...

I have a friend who after a few years of being single reconnected with his Ex.  He admitted to me that they’re dating and on the road to getting back together.  Considering how bad their breakup was, I’m very nervous for my friend and I don’t think this is the best ide...

February 20, 2019

I’ve been reading about people over 50 hiring surrogates or adopting.  As a gay man, I’ve never been in the position to have a child even though it’s something I’ve always wanted.  Financially and emotionally surrogacy is something I can do, but I’m worried that I’m to...

January 30, 2019

The problem I have with dating is time.  I have a busy schedule with work and other obligations and scheduling a date is always a problem because they also have obligations.

It’s all about priorities and time management.  If you truly want to pursue a relationship then...

January 17, 2019

I recently had a couple really good first dates and nothing ever seems to come of it.  My dates seem to like me and they say that they’d like to see me again, but I hear nothing back from them.  What am I doing wrong?

It’s not that you’re doing something wrong… may...

October 24, 2018

Lately my boyfriend has been so mad at me.  I can’t do anything right and he finds problems with everything I do.  I’m at my breaking point, but I don’t want to throw away a yearlong relationship.

There are two possibilities with this scenario... one is that there’...

October 10, 2018

I’ve been in a relationship for over a year and we just got engaged.  Since the engagement my co-workers have been really critical of my fiancée, saying things like “…well, he does make less money than you…” and “…he does spend a lot of time with his friends…” Comments...