January 29, 2020

My partner cheated and it's all on the table.  He feels remorse and wants a second chance but I’m just not sure I can ever look at him in the same way.

Overcoming cheating isn’t impossible but it definitely requires work on both of your parts.  Your partner needs t...

January 16, 2020

After spending a week with family over the holidays, my husband’s and my takeaway is that we’re being shamed for not having children yet.  We’ve been married for two years and the pressure to adopt or go the surrogacy route is crazy immense.  Someday we would like to c...

December 24, 2019

My relationship ended in 2019 and I know I should be spending New Year’s Eve celebrating my newfound independence but I just don’t have it in me.  I’m over my Ex (at least I’m pretty sure I am) but I just don’t have the energy to party it up.  Is something wrong with m...

December 11, 2019

My girlfriend was invited to spend the holidays with my family, and she  refuses to attend.  She feels it will be uncomfortable since she’s not a member of the family and doesn’t know everyone who will be there. She would rather stay home (she has no other place to spe...

November 27, 2019

My friend has tolerated a lot of crap from her partner but she remains in the relationship.  I really want to see her get out and move on to a the great new life she deserves but she’s afraid.  What can I do to make her see that being single with possibilities is bette...

October 23, 2019

My partner and I see eye-to-eye on most everything except politics.  We try to stay clear of political talk at home, but when we go out with our friends the topic always comes up.  He’s very vocal of his opinions, but he respectfully listens to the opinions of others....

I’m a 48-year-old gay man with a heterosexual past that’s being held against me in the gay dating world.  Coming out to my Ex was easy compared to some of the responses I’ve received from other gay men.  Dating has been hard because the guys I meet judge me for not com...

Recently my Ex started a dialogue with me.  It’s been two years since our breakup and I can tell he feels remorse for his behavior leading to the end of our relationship.  Getting to know him again is allowing me to see him in a different light and frankly I like it....

I’m a divorced mother of two teenagers and have been single for three years.  My divorce was relatively painless compared to most.  He didn’t abuse me or cheat on me- he just honestly came out.  I get it, and even though it was a rug pulled from under me, I’d rather kn...