I received an invitation to my 20th high school reunion which normally wouldn’t be a problem but for me it is.  Being gay in high school made me the target of a lot of bullying and in spite of having a circle of friends my high school experience wasn’t the best. I’ve n...

I just met my boyfriend’s parents and now he’s pressuring to meet mine.  His parents were nothing short of amazing, and I know mine will not leave him feeling the same way.  It’s not that they’re bad people, it’s just that they haven’t fully accepted that I’m gay and I...

January 16, 2020

After spending a week with family over the holidays, my husband’s and my takeaway is that we’re being shamed for not having children yet.  We’ve been married for two years and the pressure to adopt or go the surrogacy route is crazy immense.  Someday we would like to c...

December 24, 2019

My relationship ended in 2019 and I know I should be spending New Year’s Eve celebrating my newfound independence but I just don’t have it in me.  I’m over my Ex (at least I’m pretty sure I am) but I just don’t have the energy to party it up.  Is something wrong with m...

November 27, 2019

My friend has tolerated a lot of crap from her partner but she remains in the relationship.  I really want to see her get out and move on to a the great new life she deserves but she’s afraid.  What can I do to make her see that being single with possibilities is bette...

Recently my Ex started a dialogue with me.  It’s been two years since our breakup and I can tell he feels remorse for his behavior leading to the end of our relationship.  Getting to know him again is allowing me to see him in a different light and frankly I like it....

I’m a divorced mother of two teenagers and have been single for three years.  My divorce was relatively painless compared to most.  He didn’t abuse me or cheat on me- he just honestly came out.  I get it, and even though it was a rug pulled from under me, I’d rather kn...

September 7, 2018

I knew when I started dating my partner that he remained friends with his Ex.  Over time, I became friendly with the Ex but not to a real deep level.  Lately it seems the two of them are spending a lot of time together- should I be concerned?

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