February 28, 2020

I’ve been in a relationship for almost a year and it’s really special to me.  He’s beyond fantastic and I really see this thing of ours being long term.  The problem is that I don’t like his friends… not one of them.  I really tried to find something redeemable about t...

February 11, 2020

I met a guy online before Christmas and he chatted me up quite a bit.  A couple weeks ago I suggested a second time that we get together and he vanished… no sight of him on the app or any other apps either.  Why do people do this?

No way to know for sure why he’s M...

January 22, 2020

My partner and I are in our 70’s and although we are great companions and support to each other, our sex life has become non-existent.  I’ve tried to initiate sex and I’m always given the cold shoulder.  He actually said that we’re too old for “that stuff”.  I’m really...

I always feel a big twinge of depression after the holidays are over.  All the activity of December leads to a bleak January.  How do I snap out of it?

Having the desire to snap out of it is half the battle so you’re well on your way to success.  All you have to do...

December 11, 2019

My girlfriend was invited to spend the holidays with my family, and she  refuses to attend.  She feels it will be uncomfortable since she’s not a member of the family and doesn’t know everyone who will be there. She would rather stay home (she has no other place to spe...

December 4, 2019

My reality is that I can’t get over my Ex.  I’ve tried everything and regardless of the distractions I create I just can’t kick loving him.  What should I do?  I’d like to move on but so far I’m failing.

I wouldn’t say you’re failing just because you haven’t a...

October 30, 2019

So many guys I meet up with on apps want one thing only- even though their profile states that they’re seeking a relationship.  What’s up the deception?

Be it online or in person, not everyone in the dating pool comes from a place of honesty.  Wearing the mask of Mr. Ri...

September 11, 2019

My husband always gets depressed at the end of the summer and I don’t want to see him suffer another September.  What’s the best way to get him over the end of summer blues.

You can cure the blues with a little early red and green.  Considering you’re trying to cure his...

September 4, 2019

I’ve been in the dating scene for a couple years and I’m still single.  A lot of the guys who ask me out are really into me but I don’t return the sentiment.  Am I just being picky or am I dating the wrong guys just because they asked me out?

Yes and yes, but it’s...