January 22, 2020

My partner and I are in our 70’s and although we are great companions and support to each other, our sex life has become non-existent.  I’ve tried to initiate sex and I’m always given the cold shoulder.  He actually said that we’re too old for “that stuff”.  I’m really...

I always feel a big twinge of depression after the holidays are over.  All the activity of December leads to a bleak January.  How do I snap out of it?

Having the desire to snap out of it is half the battle so you’re well on your way to success.  All you have to do...

December 11, 2019

My girlfriend was invited to spend the holidays with my family, and she  refuses to attend.  She feels it will be uncomfortable since she’s not a member of the family and doesn’t know everyone who will be there. She would rather stay home (she has no other place to spe...

December 4, 2019

My reality is that I can’t get over my Ex.  I’ve tried everything and regardless of the distractions I create I just can’t kick loving him.  What should I do?  I’d like to move on but so far I’m failing.

I wouldn’t say you’re failing just because you haven’t a...

November 27, 2019

My friend has tolerated a lot of crap from her partner but she remains in the relationship.  I really want to see her get out and move on to a the great new life she deserves but she’s afraid.  What can I do to make her see that being single with possibilities is bette...

October 30, 2019

So many guys I meet up with on apps want one thing only- even though their profile states that they’re seeking a relationship.  What’s up the deception?

Be it online or in person, not everyone in the dating pool comes from a place of honesty.  Wearing the mask of Mr. Ri...

I’m dating a really great guy with a really big problem.  He’s still carrying some baggage from his last relationship and a lot of it is projected on me.  If I’m late because a meeting went over, he thinks I’m cheating.  I realize it’s a trust issue and it takes time t...

September 27, 2019

My husband sucks at remembering things, be it plans we made or to pick something up on his way home from work.  What really makes me angry is that he never remembers our anniversary.  Of all the things to forget, that one really angers me.  How do I get him to remember...

September 11, 2019

My husband always gets depressed at the end of the summer and I don’t want to see him suffer another September.  What’s the best way to get him over the end of summer blues.

You can cure the blues with a little early red and green.  Considering you’re trying to cure his...