I just found out that my Ex has been dating my friend for the last six months.  During the time I’ve seen my friend and not a word has been said.  What should I do?

As difficult as it might be, I would do nothing except rejoice in the fact that two people who obvio...

I just met my boyfriend’s parents and now he’s pressuring to meet mine.  His parents were nothing short of amazing, and I know mine will not leave him feeling the same way.  It’s not that they’re bad people, it’s just that they haven’t fully accepted that I’m gay and I...

It’s been three years since my breakup and I’m single and dating.  I ran into my Ex in a bar and now he’s leaving me messages asking me to get together because he’d like to try again.  I’ll always have a soft spot for him… should I consider a reconciliation?

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February 28, 2020

I’ve been in a relationship for almost a year and it’s really special to me.  He’s beyond fantastic and I really see this thing of ours being long term.  The problem is that I don’t like his friends… not one of them.  I really tried to find something redeemable about t...

February 19, 2020

I’ve been dating a guy for about four months and he proposed.  My answer was “maybe”, sending him into a tailspin, ending with him dumping me on the spot.  Not happy about it, but I’m not sad either… is “maybe” a wrong answer to a proposal?

Sounds like you gave the...

January 22, 2020

My partner and I are in our 70’s and although we are great companions and support to each other, our sex life has become non-existent.  I’ve tried to initiate sex and I’m always given the cold shoulder.  He actually said that we’re too old for “that stuff”.  I’m really...

I always feel a big twinge of depression after the holidays are over.  All the activity of December leads to a bleak January.  How do I snap out of it?

Having the desire to snap out of it is half the battle so you’re well on your way to success.  All you have to do...

December 18, 2019

I was dumped before Thanksgiving and the sadness is following me right to Christmas.  It wasn’t a good relationship and I had been thinking of ending but he beat me to it.  I still can’t shake the sad.

It takes time to shake the sad because the only way to survive...

December 11, 2019

My girlfriend was invited to spend the holidays with my family, and she  refuses to attend.  She feels it will be uncomfortable since she’s not a member of the family and doesn’t know everyone who will be there. She would rather stay home (she has no other place to spe...