I just found out that my Ex has been dating my friend for the last six months.  During the time I’ve seen my friend and not a word has been said.  What should I do?

As difficult as it might be, I would do nothing except rejoice in the fact that two people who obvio...

February 5, 2020

My partner never wants to go out and with Valentine’s approaching I’d like to do a night on the town.  How do I convince him to put down the remote and put on the dancing shoes?

If you’re having a hard time motivating him to be less of a sluggish homebody and more of a...

January 29, 2020

My partner cheated and it's all on the table.  He feels remorse and wants a second chance but I’m just not sure I can ever look at him in the same way.

Overcoming cheating isn’t impossible but it definitely requires work on both of your parts.  Your partner needs t...

November 13, 2019

I’ve been dating a guy for a year, and as much as I like him I question his reliability.  I’ve had a few situations where I really needed to lean on my partner and he was pretty dismissive because he had other things to do.

Counting on your partner to support you when l...

September 18, 2019

I’m very concerned for one of my closest and oldest friends and I’m feeling paralyzed when it comes to helping her.  She’s married to a very controlling guy and I can see how he’s treating her and forcing her into isolation.  I’ve asked her if everything is ok, and she...

October 31, 2018

I met a guy online and after a couple great dates he confessed that he’s married.  He presented himself in his profile as single and wanting a relationship.  I really like him but feel totally blindsided and whorish for cheating.

Dishonesty in dating can be found r...

I’m attracting a lot of guys online, however some of these men are just not my type.  They send very nice and complimentary messages to me, which makes it hard to say no.

Sometimes you’ve got to channel Nancy Reagan and just say no.  If there’s zero attraction on your p...

September 19, 2018

I had a really great first date which ended with the intention of a second date.  Never heard a word back from him, which of course bugged me but I got over it.  Three months later, he leaves me a message and wants to get together.  What should I do?

Sometime...