February 19, 2020

I’ve been dating a guy for about four months and he proposed.  My answer was “maybe”, sending him into a tailspin, ending with him dumping me on the spot.  Not happy about it, but I’m not sad either… is “maybe” a wrong answer to a proposal?

Sounds like you gave the...

February 11, 2020

I met a guy online before Christmas and he chatted me up quite a bit.  A couple weeks ago I suggested a second time that we get together and he vanished… no sight of him on the app or any other apps either.  Why do people do this?

No way to know for sure why he’s M...

January 29, 2020

My partner cheated and it's all on the table.  He feels remorse and wants a second chance but I’m just not sure I can ever look at him in the same way.

Overcoming cheating isn’t impossible but it definitely requires work on both of your parts.  Your partner needs t...

December 24, 2019

My relationship ended in 2019 and I know I should be spending New Year’s Eve celebrating my newfound independence but I just don’t have it in me.  I’m over my Ex (at least I’m pretty sure I am) but I just don’t have the energy to party it up.  Is something wrong with m...

December 4, 2019

My reality is that I can’t get over my Ex.  I’ve tried everything and regardless of the distractions I create I just can’t kick loving him.  What should I do?  I’d like to move on but so far I’m failing.

I wouldn’t say you’re failing just because you haven’t a...

November 13, 2019

I’ve been dating a guy for a year, and as much as I like him I question his reliability.  I’ve had a few situations where I really needed to lean on my partner and he was pretty dismissive because he had other things to do.

Counting on your partner to support you when l...

November 6, 2019

I’ve been single for a year and I haven’t started dating.  My friends are pressuring me to get back out there.  When is the right time to start dating after a breakup?

There’s no time frame, no rules and no rush.  When you feel you’re ready to begin dating again, t...

October 17, 2019

I’ve been dating a guy for six months and it’s going great.  The only frustration is that my best friend has nothing positive to say about him or my relationship.  At every turn he says something negative.  My boyfriend and I are most likely taking it to the next level...

September 27, 2019

My husband sucks at remembering things, be it plans we made or to pick something up on his way home from work.  What really makes me angry is that he never remembers our anniversary.  Of all the things to forget, that one really angers me.  How do I get him to remember...