My mother-in law has an opinion on everything and isn’t afraid to voice it.  The problem is that her influence over my husband is becoming intolerable- so much so that I feel I’m in a relationship with her instead of her son.   Lately he can’t make a decision without h...

Recently my Ex started a dialogue with me.  It’s been two years since our breakup and I can tell he feels remorse for his behavior leading to the end of our relationship.  Getting to know him again is allowing me to see him in a different light and frankly I like it....

I’m dating a guy I met online and I really like him.  Fortunately he feels the same way and several dates in it’s going in a great direction.  There’s only one problem… in his profile he failed to include that he’s hearing impaired.  I don’t care about that at all, but...

I’ve been noticing a theme with a lot of online dating profiles, and I don’t like it.  Many of the singles are being very specific in telling potential dates to “swipe left” if they have certain beliefs or attributes differing from theirs.  From “no smokers” to “no Rep...

My Ex is getting married, which affects me in no way.  What’s bothering me is how my friends keep asking me if I’m ok with this.  I feel like I’m in more conversations about him now than when we were in a relationship and it’s really getting old.

It’s human nature...

Games People Play

I’ve met several guys online, and after a week or so of texting I’ll suggest we get together.  At that point, they vanish.  Why does this happen?

It most likely has nothing to do with you but is symptomatic of whatever their motivation is regarding...

February 27, 2019

I met a guy online and the conversations were amazing.  He made it clear that he, like me, was looking for a serious relationship.  Our first date was epic until the end.  After a lengthy goodnight kiss he obviously wanted to come back to my place.  I put the breaks on...

February 20, 2019

I’ve been reading about people over 50 hiring surrogates or adopting.  As a gay man, I’ve never been in the position to have a child even though it’s something I’ve always wanted.  Financially and emotionally surrogacy is something I can do, but I’m worried that I’m to...

January 30, 2019

The problem I have with dating is time.  I have a busy schedule with work and other obligations and scheduling a date is always a problem because they also have obligations.

It’s all about priorities and time management.  If you truly want to pursue a relationship then...

January 23, 2019

I’m a single, successful professional guy and I meet a lot of men online.  The initial conversation goes